Talk Hard!

Yesterday’s post might seem to have forgotten a whole category of sex outside, namely sex on the beach. So what about it? Well, it’s a tasty drink…

Aside from the fact that it’s still pretty cold for sex on any lakeshore here in the Great Lakes region, to be honest I’ve never had sex on the beach (apart from the cocktail that goes by that name). And I haven’t heard that it’s very fun. Sand is really gritty and full of things like stones and seashells, and it gets everywhere. Gritty sand and sex does not sound like a good combination to me.

I’ve done some really nice cuddling and even making out on beaches, and I’ve also gone skinny-dipping, which is a fun group activity. But I also like to take moonlit walks on the beach, which is part of why I think the beach is not such a good place to go all the way unless you’re fond of involuntary coitus interruptus.

Also, the beach can get quite hot during the day, and quite cold at night. It’s really all-around not the most comfortable place. If you do decide to try it, don’t forget towels and a blanket and make note of whether or not you’re above the high tide line, or you could end up with you or all your stuff getting wet while you’re otherwise distracted. Or, like I said Saturday, bring a tent. Camping on the beach can be fun too.

And if you’re going to be fooling around on a beach during the day, consider sunscreen. All over.  Which now that I think of it could make for some pretty fun foreplay, putting it on each other…

Have fun!

Er, well, sex itself is a pretty big topic, but no, it doesn’t have to be. There are other hard topics worth talking about, like schools that tune you out and turn you off (and suppress information about things like sex), bullies who beat you up or tear you down, and mixed messages about attractiveness, as well as your current responsibilities and future opportunities and so many hard decisions ahead of you.

What do you want to talk hard about? Make suggestions in comments.